If you don’t, be patient and give your ex more time. It's been 4 months since he broke up with me for someone else, 3.5 months of push and pull, and 11 days since he told me "time to move. First of all, the most obvious reason is Love. My ex and I were together for about 6 months, after which he temporarily relocated to a new city. It's just not fair to your new sweetie, and it won't help you get over your ex any more quickly. with him i could be myself and i was feeling peace. Relaxing the body relaxes the mind far more than the other way around. Eat right and get moving. You go On and on with the inner voices in your head. He is more calm, shy, very handsome, tho lacks confidence, definitely an introvert, but he opened up with me very quickly and declared his love to me after 2 weeks of dating. Upload or insert images from URL. This month marks two years since my ex and I have broken up, and it has taken me the entirety of those two years to realize I still love him. We were together for over a year and he was everything to me that year, he is literally all I can remember from last year. Based on these statistics, you will also likely hear from your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend in the first 6 months. ... My boyfriend of only a few months broke up with me suddenly two months ago, and I still can't get over it. You yourself make the choice how fast the road goes away in the rear view mirror. It's the only way thru to the other side but it's a tough road getting there. he promised me we would be a family one day and he was my very best friend, so when he left i was confused and honestly, i was traumatized. I don't know the answer, because I'm still struggling too....but I guess I would say time, time, time. You were with them for a reason, but you also broke up with them for a reason, so if you think about getting back together with your ex, look at that reason and see if it might still present a challenge. Too early for me to start looking, but on my mind a lot. I am going through the exact situation after being with a girl 14 years from age of 17/18 engaged to me married, moving in buying a house. Are you good … I havent cried about him for months and this past couple of days I am so tearful, even crying writing this. It's been almost 6 months and I still miss my ex. My boyfriend left me by moving a far distance for a new job and led me to believe I would be following him later, but when I got home from work the day he left. with him i could be myself and i was feeling peace. Your link has been automatically embedded. The relationship was horribly toxic and I was miserable with him, and yet, I was strangely more miserable without him. while youre emotional, it can appear that things will always be as bad as they are now, but Ive noticed from the past, even when I go through month-long struggles with emotions or breakups or whatever it may be, after I start feeling better (to the point where I just know Im better and I dont have to ask or think about it), my friends and others start to come into my life, as if they can just sense my recovery. and in a year you look back and laugh at where you were. Let go of them. Will I ever forget him? Not the healthiest thing to do all day. In the meantime, theres nothing wrong with going on some dates and hopefully meeting someone who will respect you and love you for who you are. Would love your thoughts, please comment.